The summer holidays are often seen as a time to enjoy some quality time with your family, but for some couples, they can also be a source of stress and conflict.
If you are feeling unhappy in your marriage and are thinking about separating from your partner after the holidays, you may want to consider some steps to prepare yourself emotionally, financially, and legally.
Emotional Preparation
Separating from your spouse is a major life decision that can have a significant impact on your mental health and well-being. It is normal to feel a range of emotions, such as sadness, anger, guilt, fear, relief or confusion.
You may also experience grief, loss, anxiety or depression. It is important to acknowledge and process your feelings, and seek professional help if you need it.
You can also reach out to supportive friends and family members who can offer you emotional support and guidance.
Financial Preparation
Separating from your spouse can also affect your financial situation, especially if you have shared assets, debts or income. You may need to consider how you will divide your property, pay your bills, manage your debts and support yourself and your children. You may also need to update your will, insurance policies, bank accounts and other financial documents.
To prepare yourself financially, you should gather all the relevant information and documents about your finances, such as bank statements, tax returns, payslips, mortgage statements, credit card statements, etc. You should also consult a financial adviser who can help you plan your budget, savings and investments.
Legal Preparation
Separating from your spouse can also involve legal issues, such as divorce, child custody, child support, spousal support and property settlement.
Depending on your situation, you may need to negotiate with your spouse, go to mediation or go to court. To prepare yourself legally, you should seek legal advice from a family law solicitor who can explain your rights and obligations, advise you on the best course of action and represent you in any legal proceedings. A family law solicitor can also help you draft a separation agreement that outlines the terms of your separation and protects your interests.
Once you're prepared for divorce, you can use our sister blog post to find out the best way to support your children through divorce.
How Can Howells Solicitors Help
At Howells Solicitors, we have a team of experienced and compassionate family law solicitors who can assist you with any aspect of separation or divorce. We understand that every case is unique and we tailor our services to suit your needs and goals.
If you are considering separating from your spouse after the summer holidays, or if you have already separated and need legal help, please contact us today to arrange an appointment with one of our family law solicitors.
